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Compare Communities the Way We Do

Rate every community you tour on the same twelve points, weight what matters to your family, and let the numbers settle the argument. Score up to four communities side by side, add your own notes, then print the page or send it to an advisor who knows the buildings.

Add up to four communities, set how much each point matters to your family, then score every community on the same twelve points. The scores update as you go. Nothing is saved unless you ask us to email it.

Night shift staffing

Good looks like a named number of caregivers awake overnight, not on call from another floor.

Night shift staffing for this community

Staff turnover

Good looks like the director and several caregivers having been there more than two years.

Staff turnover for this community

Cleanliness and smell

Good looks like clean air at 3pm on a weekday, not just at the front door in the morning.

Cleanliness and smell for this community

Food quality

Good looks like a meal you would eat yourself, served when residents are actually hungry.

Food quality for this community

Activities that fit

Good looks like things your person would truly join, not a full calendar nobody attends.

Activities that fit for this community

Care pricing transparency

Good looks like a written tier sheet that shows what moves you from one care level to the next.

Care pricing transparency for this community

Rate increase history

Good looks like the last three years of increases in writing, usually 3 to 8 percent a year.

Rate increase history for this community

Discharge policy clarity

Good looks like a plain answer on what behavior or care need would end the stay.

Discharge policy clarity for this community

Dementia training of staff

Good looks like required dementia training for every caregiver, with hours you can verify.

Dementia training of staff for this community

Nurse availability

Good looks like a nurse in the building daily, and a clear answer for nights and weekends.

Nurse availability for this community

Distance from family

Good looks like a drive you will still make on a Tuesday evening in February.

Distance from family for this community

Gut feeling

Good looks like staff greeting residents by name while nobody is watching.

Gut feeling for this community

Weighted score out of 100

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We know most of these buildings. Send us your scores and we will tell you what the numbers are missing.

How does the scorecard work?

Add each community by name, then score it 1 to 5 on twelve points. Set a weight on every point first, so night staffing can count double while distance counts half. The scorecard turns your ratings into a weighted score out of 100 and highlights the leader as you go.

Points you have not rated yet are left out of the math, so a half finished card still gives you an honest comparison of what you have seen. Nothing is stored on your device and nothing is saved unless you ask us to email it to you. For the long form version of this method, read our written guide to comparing communities.

What should you score, and why these twelve?

These are the twelve things that decide whether a placement holds up a year later. Four are about staffing, because a beautiful building with two aides overnight will not keep your person safe. Three are about money, because a rate structure nobody will put in writing is the most common reason families move twice.

The rest cover daily life and your own honest reaction. Cleanliness at three in the afternoon, food you would eat, activities your person would truly join, a nurse you can reach, a drive you will still make in February, and the feeling you get watching staff talk to residents. Our guide to red flags on a tour covers what a low score usually means.

How do you use it on tour day?

Print the blank card before you go and fill it in by hand while you walk, or bring it on your phone and score one community at a time. Do it in the parking lot before you drive away, while the smell of the dining room is still fresh. Waiting until evening turns twelve honest ratings into one vague impression.

Ask the same questions at every stop so the scores mean something. Our list of questions to ask on a tour lines up with these twelve points. When the cards are done, send them to us. Reading tours with families is part of how we work, and it is free.

Frequently asked questions

Up to four. Most families tour three or four before they decide, and four columns still print on one page. If you toured more than four, score the four you are seriously considering and keep the rest in your notes.

Each point can count double, normal, or half. The score is the weighted points a community earned divided by the weighted points it could have earned, shown out of 100. So if night staffing matters a lot to you, a weak overnight team pulls that community down harder.

No. Nothing is stored on your device or in your browser, so closing the tab clears it. Print the page or use the email option before you leave if you want to keep it.

Usually, but not always. The score tells you which building fits the things you said matter. Availability, the nurse assessment, and whether the community will accept your person can still change the answer, which is why we read finished scorecards with families for free.

Not sure where to start? Call us.

It is free, and there is no pressure.